Ah, holiday tipping, that peculiarly American pastime that erupts into an orgy of envelopes and awkward "thank you"s at the end of every year. Kiplinger tries the impossible: putting together a guide for who to tip and how much to give. Even they admit that it's nigh impossible to create a definitive guide—they suggest "handing out end-of-the year tips for one to three people who have given you exemplary service during the year."
Here are few of their suggestions:
CLEANING PERSONWe just wish there was some sort of anti-tip for our perpetually angry mailman, who actually throws boxes up the stairs so he doesn't have to climb them. (Yeah, we've complained. It still happens.)
How much to tip: The cost of one visit if he or she visits weekly or bi-weekly. If you use a cleaning service that works in a team, a box of chocolates for the team is customary.LETTER CARRIER
How much to tip: The U.S. Postal service says gifts must be under $20 in value [and should not be cash] . A gift card at Dunkin' Donuts or a similar store that could serve as an off-duty for the carrier's route is acceptable.BABY SITTER
How much to tip: Nanny or au pair — one week's pay and a small gift from the child; regular sitter — one to two nights' pay; day-care provider — $25 to $70. Only give a holiday tip if you've frequently used the sitter during the year or you had to call on them in an 11th hour emergency.
"Holiday Tipping Tip Sheet" [Kiplinger]
"What You Need to Know About Holiday Tipping" [Kiplinger]
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