Barnes & Noble College Bookstores Sends Email Reminder That You Don't Want Them To Send You Email
Gosh, this is really thoughtful of the Barnes & Noble bookstore on the Georgia Tech campus. They sent Steve an email reminder that at some point in the past, he explicitly opted out of receiving any email communications from them in the future. See, he may have forgotten that he didn't want to be contacted, and how else would he remember it if B&N didn't contact him to let him know? Update: Shane at Mississippi State University received the same helpful reminder from his campus bookstore, also run by B&N.
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There isn't really any evidence that Steve or Shane (at least not from what Consumerist posted) chose to opt-out of their e-mails, certainly no evidence that either person specifically told Consumerist they did not sign up.
Nothing about that screen cap says to me that Steve "explicitly opted out of receiving any email communications from them in the future."
It says he registered on their website, but did not opt-in for their emails. Most websites send a confirmation e-mail of registration (this is what this is) and will also include information as to their other services, such as opting-in for e-mails. This is hardly a problem.
We don't have any information as to whether Steve or Shane at their respective universities are B&N account holders through their campus bookstore, or whether they are simply being spammed by B&N's campus division because they are students, and everyone gets the e-mail. But it clearly says "thank you for registering" which indicates that a student had to have initiated contact to receive a welcome e-mail.
@pecan 3.14159265: Clarification on my part: What I mean to say is that I see that Steve DID opt-out of the e-mails, but this e-mail in particular is clearly a "welcome" letter and a confirmation of registration, NOT a random "check out our deals" e-mail, which is the kind that he opted-out from.
@Cindy Cardona: Otherwise known as "spam."
By the way, does anybody have a new URL for spam reporting on the FTC site? The old one doesn't work, and the only complaint form I could find was for the reporting of fraud.
This is becoming reasonably common practice, actually.
It happens once every few weeks that I'll get an e-mail from some company that I've done business with saying, basically, "We're just e-mailing you to be sure that you wanted to opt-out, 'cause if you were getting our mail you'd be drowning in AWESOME right now."
The last couple of these have been wedding-stuff-related, and they're the worst damn bunch of shysters and information-sellers anyway, so I didn't take much notice. (I can't remember most of the specific businesses, because I delete the e-mails on sight and it's been a few weeks.)
@Etoiles: I'm still getting e-mails from Modern Bride even though I've opted out twice, and block their e-mails with the Gmail spam filters. Once in a while they sneak by anyway.
@pecan 3.14159265:
Pretty much; I don't think I've ever seen an e-commerce website that allows you to "explicitly opt out of receiving any email communications from them in the future." They send stuff like order confirmations and communication about your account via e-mail. Without being able to e-mail you, they're going to have a hard time communicating with you.
Opting out of regular mailings does not preclude the occasional one-off mailing that is deemed important enough to be sent to everyone.
This particular e-mail isn't really important and doesn't really warrant a special mailing, but is it that big a deal? If this is the sort of thing that "makes your blood boil," perhaps you have rage issues.
@vastrightwing: Etoiles wasn't saying that it was acceptable, just that companies were increasing their practice of these e-mails. It's becoming more common but common doesn't equal acceptable.
Hahaha! The B&N on the Georgia Tech campus, poor guy.
Do you know how much spam I receive from Georgia Tech alone? More than my junk Yahoo accounts receive combined. And even though it's legit, you still can't unsubscribe: they'll forward campus-wide notices from what I guess are student groups, but there are no signatures on the email and no settings in any account I've searched to stop these notices. I get weekly notices from the Alumni Association, and I'm still registered as a student. My department sends everyone the same reminders over and over and over again. Now the campus has this condensed announcement system... except they send announcements every couple days, it seems. Madness! Heh, it's just natural to get it from the Georgia Tech B&N, too.
But this is about Barnes & Noble, not Georgia Tech. I just felt like sharing.
I got this same e-mail from my law school bookstore. I registered an account with them almost a year ago, so this wasn't a welcome letter. While I don't specifically remember a check box to opt out of e-mails when I registered a year ago, I ALWAYS make sure I check or uncheck the boxes so that I don't receive e-mails when I register for anything.
@Etoiles: They really are. I advise any of my friends who are getting married to create a wedding account and delete it after the ceremony. what really annoys me are the catalogs that I keep getting, since I hate to waste so much paper
The other favorite trick of companies like this is to change their opt-in/out options around slightly. (From "sales" and "coupon" newsletters to "promotions" "events" and "bargains" newsletters for example). They then send a message saying "Our options have changed. Since we don't know what your preference will with these new options, we have helpfully re-subscribed you to everything" When you go to opt-out again, it takes 4 to 6 weeks to take effect, and the options magically change again 7 weeks later.
@pecan 3.14159265: To echo what spicyarmadillo wrote, this is NOT a "Welcome to our site!" email. I received the same thing, and I registered for the site over a year ago.
Also, because I was curious, I checked out the registration page again (because I couldn't remember how it was set up). The page loads with the "Email me with sales promotions, etc." box PRE-CHECKED. Which means that I would have had to physically un-check that box during registration in order to opt out.
I don't know how I could have made my intentions more clear to them.
@HIV 2 Elway Resurrected: From my view, there are no advantages. If I thought there were, I wouldn't have opted out.
@edwardso: I'm using my old "real name" GMail account, but I'm changing my name (and therefore, also my e-mail) after the wedding so it's the same effect. ;)
@pecan 3.14159265: This, exactly. "Common" and "acceptable" are not synonyms.
@HIV 2 Elway Resurrected: Lots of people want to give me money. Did you know how much I could save by refinancing my mortgage? I sure do, because of the 100 pieces of mail sitting in my spam filter.
Note: I do not own a home, nor am I shopping for one.
@Etoiles: This is why I often use a nonexistent email. I can figure out what I need to know from credit card bills or information on the site. I've got at least one place where I regret not doing so (that's you, HMV, you unsubscribe-ignoring twits).
@HIV 2 Elway Resurrected: Well, it's invasive. I don't think it's good to annoy people you've already told not to contact you though.
Hypothetical question: when you choose not to opt-in to regular e-mails from a company, how often can they get away with sending you something before you cry foul?
I don't think you can fairly say, "the very first time", because really there are some things that are important enough to go out to everyone. If someplace sent you a message, say, once a year, not explicitly trying to sell a product or service, but as a reminder that they were still out there, would you make a stink about it? What about once a quarter? What is the threshold?
@supercereal: It would make mine too. Sure, it's one simple thing, but when every company you've ever contacted starts doing it, regularly, what makes that not spam? It's like explicitly telling someone not to poke you in the face, but then, about an hour later, they poke you in the face, saying "I know you told me not to poke you in the face, but I thought maybe you forgot about telling me that and actually wanted me to poke you in the face." It's disrespectful, and it puts them in the same league with some of the more prolific spammers who say "I know they say they don't want these emails, but that's just because they don't realize that they do want them".
@parliboy: I don't think there are any things that are important enough to go out to everyone via email. Wanting to let me know they're out there certainly isn't enough--tons of places would like me to know they're out there, and they just have to suck it up. If they're closing, I'll find out one way or another.
So I'll most definitely cry foul the first time, and I can't even see why you'd except that. That's my threshold.
@savdavid: I'm sure their excuse would be that many people forget to sign up. That would, to them, justify this little reminder. You'd be amazed at how many internet first-timers would be willing to sign up for email early on, before they learn just what happens when they do.


















I would delete my account immediately. I wonder what prompted them to send this out. Someone had a bright idea and ran with it without thinking about the implications. The worse part is I'm sure a few will sign-up and it will be viewed as a success.