Confess Your Money Sins
Personal finance management site Geezeo is running a neat little section where people can leave their "money confessions." Here's some of the best so far:
What things are you doing with your money that make you feel guilty? Leave your confessions in the comments.
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@dohtem: Oh man. Me too.
I also convince myself every month that I can wait until the end of the month to make the balance of my checking my dedicated savings, which I do, all $0.12 of it.
I have zero self control. I just bought speakers for the living room and my husband doesn't know yet.
I'm going to set them up and see how long it takes him to notice.
@DrGirlfriend:
I haven't balanced my "checkbook" in about 15 years. I don't really write checks, and keep track of everything online. It works for me.
@DrGirlfriend: Me either. If it weren't for online banking, I would be helpless. It does bother me to think any mistakes in my bank's favor will probably go unnoticed unless they are really obvious. Strangely, I did actually catch an error in my favor once. Damn this conscience of mine!
@missdona: That's why I said "checkbook" - I don't write checks either, but still, I don't keep better track of my expenditures. I do the addition and subtraction as I go and kind of estimate my balance. Heh.
@dohtem: That's me, too. I like to cook, but man, I get lazy sometimes. Especially after an exhausting trip to the grocery store.
these are great, it reminds me of those anonymous Washington Post postcards.
i unlinked my savings and checking, stopped shopping during my lunch break, and even decreased my speed to stay below 3 rpm on the highway to save money on gas (i have a long commute) ... only to plop down $20 a day on lunch with co-workers :o(
i take food to work and everything!
When I lived in New York one of my friends would visit me often, and told me that the attraction of consumerism just being there was so strong that by the end of the week he felt practically drawn to buying things as an activity.
I didn't notice, and by the time I left I was about $10k down, despite making almost 6 figures for the past 3 years. Now (a few years later) I can go to stores without the feeling that I have to buy *something*, which is good.
@DrGirlfriend: This thread made me actually cook the groceries I bought on the way home, that I was feeling to tired to cook. It's really sad how that happens.
@missdona: It 'works' for you because you trust the bank and other to not screw up.
My grandmother is a retired business CPA and routinely catches bank errors by balancing her books. The bank never sees the error until you bring it up.
@DrGirlfriend: I'm so bad at this too! I do a mixture of checks and automatic payments. I've gotten better about checking online.
I'm still feeling guilty about closing out an IRA after starting a new job and not being able to pay all my bills/ having a large tax bill. I have a 401, but I still crappy when I think about my old IRA. *sigh
@balthisar: Is there a better way to avoid this? I only run into this when out of the country so my company is actually paying it, but I honestly never looked at it as a big deal. Considering $1.50+ ATM charges in the US, it seemed like a bargain to have a bank watching my ass in Asia.
I have a lot of money in savings, but dont invest it as I probably should. Probably because I know NOTHING about investing & dont want to risk all my $$ I have suffered/worked for all these years working a low-paying job.
I dont have an IRA or any retirement plans (because i am hoping I die before retirement age).
I live quite a simple, frugal life where I have no debt at all, save obsessively (because i have a horrible fear of the future where I become homeless/destitute).... in 2006 I put away about 30% of my income into savings. In 2007 I think it is closer to %45.
I spend way too much money on fast food.
I hope that I die with the majority of my $$$ in the bank. Its my security blanklet against the financial boogeyman.
I forgot another one.... I dont keep a balanced checkbook. I really dont need to because i keep track of my spending habits & monitor my checking account balance several times a month via my bank's automated customer service line.
@forgottenpassword: You really should talk to a financial planner. With the proper guidance, you could easily find an investment plan that you're comfortable with the risk level. And leaving your money in a low-interest savings account is a bad idea because thanks to inflation, you're actually losing money.
@GinaLouise: That's nothing to be ashamed about. We work to earn money so we can enjoy ourselves, and the memories of that concert will last a lifetime.
I never do the checkbook register math; I just check off what is deposited, what is cleared, and match things up to what the bank says I have.
Big Confession: Back in the day of banks reading the magnetic bank account numbers on checks I used to spray the numbers down to remove the magnetic property of the ink. Did it on tight months to give myself an extra 3 days of float. Never once bounced a check. (Today it's all optically scanned and my trick would have no affect.)
@rockergal:
Move to Chicago where Cigarettes cost $7-9/pack and you'll quit real quick. My wife did.
I don't save as much as I should. Getting blindsided by a layoff last July taught me that.
I can honestly say that since making an extreme effort to reduce my CC debt since coming here the year before made a HUGE difference when it came time to paying the bills during my four months of unemployment.
Thank you Consumerist. I'll try to double (or better) the savings I have by the time next year's article rolls around.
@B:
Make that a high-interest savings account.
.... and as for the financial planner.... I just dont have faith in people at all... especially when a certain amount of risk (when handling your money) is to be expected.
The "proper guidance" is what worries me.
@forgottenpassword: But you trust your bank, right? Talk to them. They can help you invest in CDs or bonds, put some money in an IRA. Yes, there are unethical people in the financial industry, but there are honest ones, too. Just don't put all your investments in the same place.
Let's see: lost the house and the cars in early '05 after spouse and I lost our jobs. Still paying for my mistakes with extremely painful garnishment that takes half of my check . . . still haven't signed up for the 401K because I feel like I'm barely able to breathe.
I guess the biggest thing to confess is the feeling of hopelessness that gets so overwhelming at times - I'm sure that everyone thinks I'm a failure and wonder if I'll ever see financial daylight.
I resolved not to buy a car until mid february (after potential bonuses and salary increase and I turn 25). I bought one last night. On the plus side, the deal for the car wasn't that bad and the trade in value of my old car was more than I initially paid (well, really I think they just took money off the MSRP and said it was part of the trade in). But still way less expensive than a different deal another dealer tried to give me. Rationalize. rationalize.


























I am not yet enrolled in my company's 401k! Filled out the application and turned it in today though...